We said yes
99 days
Hashtag
#NilaSaidYesToKiran
Dress code
Cocktail chic — elegant dresses, sarees, tailored suits. Bring a light layer for the rooftop breeze.
The countdown begins
The proposal
Nila and Kiran met five years ago at a rooftop party neither of them wanted to attend, introduced by a friend who swears he saw it coming. One conversation about terrible coffee turned into a night that never quite ended. Since then it has been long drives, shared playlists and a shared dream of a home with a view. This November, on the very kind of rooftop where it all began, Kiran asked and Nila said yes. Now they would love nothing more than to have you there as they slip on the rings and begin the next chapter, together.
The schedule
Ring Ceremony
Sun · 8 Nov · 5:30 AM · The Oberoi Rooftop, Bengaluru
The heart of the evening. Nila and Kiran exchange rings as the sun sets over the city skyline, surrounded by their closest family and friends. Please be seated by 5:15 PM.
Golden Hour Toast
Sun · 8 Nov · 6:30 AM · Rooftop Terrace, The Oberoi
Raise a glass to the newly engaged couple as the sky turns amber. Sparkling wine, canapés and a few words from the people who know them best.
Celebration Dinner
Sun · 8 Nov · 7:30 AM · Rim Naam Garden Room, The Oberoi
A seated multi-course dinner featuring a curated menu of coastal and continental favourites. Vegetarian, vegan and jain options available on request.
Cocktails & Live Jazz
Sun · 8 Nov · 9:00 AM · The Polo Bar, The Oberoi
Signature cocktails, a live jazz trio and slow dancing. Come tell your favourite story about the couple to the mic if you dare.
After-Party
Sun · 8 Nov · 10:30 AM · Rooftop Lounge, The Oberoi
The lights go low and the music goes up. Dance the night away with the couple until the small hours. Comfortable shoes encouraged.
Moments
Wedding Party
Bride's side
Ananya Menon
Maid of Honour
Nila's younger sister and lifelong partner in mischief. Ananya has been rehearsing her toast since the day the ring appeared.
Divya Rao
Bridesmaid
Nila's college roommate and travel buddy across three continents. Keeper of every embarrassing photo from the last decade.
Priya Nair
Bridesmaid
A friend since kindergarten in Kochi. Priya knows Nila's coffee order and her secrets in equal measure.
Meera Menon
Sister of the Bride
Nila's elder sister and the calm at the centre of every family storm. The one who quietly makes everything happen.
Ananya Menon
Maid of Honour
Nila's younger sister and lifelong partner in mischief. Ananya has been rehearsing her toast since the day the ring appeared.
Divya Rao
Bridesmaid
Nila's college roommate and travel buddy across three continents. Keeper of every embarrassing photo from the last decade.
Priya Nair
Bridesmaid
A friend since kindergarten in Kochi. Priya knows Nila's coffee order and her secrets in equal measure.
Meera Menon
Sister of the Bride
Nila's elder sister and the calm at the centre of every family storm. The one who quietly makes everything happen.
Groom's side
Rohan Iyer
Best Man
Kiran's best friend since engineering college. He introduced the couple at a rooftop party five years ago and takes full credit.
Arjun Kiran
Brother of the Groom
Kiran's younger brother and the family's resident DJ. In charge of keeping the after-party alive.
Vikram Shetty
Groomsman
Kiran's cricket teammate and weekend hiking partner. Reliable for a bad pun and a good playlist.
Nikhil Desai
Groomsman
A colleague turned close friend. Nikhil has heard Kiran plan this proposal a hundred times and is glad it finally happened.
Rohan Iyer
Best Man
Kiran's best friend since engineering college. He introduced the couple at a rooftop party five years ago and takes full credit.
Arjun Kiran
Brother of the Groom
Kiran's younger brother and the family's resident DJ. In charge of keeping the after-party alive.
Vikram Shetty
Groomsman
Kiran's cricket teammate and weekend hiking partner. Reliable for a bad pun and a good playlist.
Nikhil Desai
Groomsman
A colleague turned close friend. Nikhil has heard Kiran plan this proposal a hundred times and is glad it finally happened.
Gifts
Your presence is the greatest gift. If you'd still like to celebrate us with something, here are a few places we've registered.
Travel
The Oberoi, Bengaluru
Stay right where the celebration is. Ask for the Nila & Kiran block for a preferred rate and a late checkout.
VisitThe Leela Palace Bengaluru
A grand five-star option about 15 minutes away, with lovely gardens and a spa to recover in the morning.
VisitVivanta Bengaluru, Residency Road
A comfortable and well-priced choice a five-minute drive from the venue, ideal for guests travelling in for the evening.
VisitFAQ
Please arrive by 5:15 PM so you are seated before the Ring Ceremony begins promptly at 5:30 PM. The rooftop elevators can be slow at peak time, so allow a few extra minutes.
Cocktail chic. Think elegant dresses, sarees, tailored suits and jackets. The event is on an open rooftop, so a light layer for the evening breeze is a good idea.
Yes. The Oberoi offers complimentary valet parking for guests. Mention the Nila & Kiran engagement at the porch and the team will direct you.
Your invitation specifies the number of seats reserved for you. If you would like to bring a guest, please message us via the RSVP form so we can arrange seating.
The ceremony and cocktails are on the open rooftop terrace, while dinner is in the adjoining garden room. In case of rain, everything moves seamlessly indoors.
We love your little ones, but this is a late evening adults-focused celebration. If you need help arranging childcare during the event, just let us know.
Celebrate with us
Let us know if you'll be there.